lked away from your engagement party mid-last year and some of the experience you h

y think because everyone knows my stories.

hing, but sometimes, there is a need to l

y hands waiting to hear what am gonna say

r. I was going solo at a friend’s wedding, a year after I broke up with my fiancé. I'm always a bridesmaid a

they call a progression bias an irresistible inclination to push forward with a romantic relationship, r

t like us. Because I never attended my engagement party. I love my fiance and belie

son, belief, is the best, and don't leave a life of regret. If you want to be happy, do not d

to hear that."

I retorted with

sed to attend my engagement party after learning my boyfriend ha

ed without mu

serious, as the year goes by. We often plan our futures together. We di

estion in public, despite knowing I would hate it, and he did accept never to surprise me with a pub

y I skipped my boyfriend, leaving him in the restaurant surrounded by t

stunned by my decision no

ngagement party 11 months ago without going back, but got

cebook before he could accept my decision and proceed with th

prised because I have had te

a tough decision walking out of my engagement party. I

She feels her choices won't be accepted by her fiance which may lead to d

gh my experiences. And before I convey little of my misfortune, I'd like

air over her shoulder. She was skeptica

rings for a while. I didn't know the whe

y hate a public proposal. The very idea gives me hives and

t to meet at the restaurant, but my dad called before I left, asking if our big announcement tonight was ba

led my best friend Charlotte, who reluctantly confirmed my fears. And things qu

ut I told you I don't want a public

t wanna surprise

eople. I was stunned, and I felt betrayed, I told him that this wasn't what I wanted and th

ecting a grand gesture proposal, so he was going to do it, otherwise he wouldn'

, I wouldn't be coming at all. But he thought I was joking, I then hung up and

k cause, he said I embarrassed him in front

sily said yes to his proposal, and that I'm being ungrateful because any other woman

knew it was coming, but I don't like being put on the spot or

rstand Ms. Ami

d without wasting time, and