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liness, shyness, insecurities, attitude issues e.t.c to weigh you down and rob you of your joy and laughter making your every day life to be not less than having a nightmare so here

ut some real serious problems like lack of confidence, unproductivity, laziness, poverty, loneliness, poor communicati

just keep quiet with pain and sorrow in my heart asking myself when i was alone 'why i couldn't gather enough courage and guts to feel free around others and to express myself, the desperation of not being in a relationship missing out on those teenage dates and feeling as if i was living for nothing. Shyness made me the most sad, self segregatory, self isolated, stressed and lonely and most of all it was affecting my academical performance as well as my social, emotional, physiological well being and i tell you what, to be like i was is worse than being in a maximum prison paying the ultimate price for a crime, because before anybody could look down on me i looked down on myself, before any one could mock me i had mocked myself and life was not the easiest of things for me and you can just imagine the pain i had to go through and endure on a daily basis to make it worse i shared my pain all by myself as i was even shy to confide in another person until there came a time when i spent all day looking at the mirror and i challenged myself to put shyness behind me so as to live a

be at least i know that you will be great but nobody ever became great by just waking up one day into greatness. It starts with you as an individual in your mind. When you develop a small idea then the more you think and act upon it the bigger the vision grows and the bigger the desire to fight to see it come true and that's nothing close to what a shy person can do but like writer Miguel Angel Nunuez said in one of his books i love ''only the brave triu

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se truth is that you must deal with shyness or shyness is gonna deal with

self if you are willing to live with it bearin

got to understand that it's important for you to admit to your self that you are a shy per

every area of your life that is affected by your shyness

atter how people may try to justify it to say "I'm a shy person" etc it does not make sense because the shyness is a form of hindrance that also promotes self deprivation. Here is one example if you aspire in your heart to be nominated as candidate to stand in the presidential race on the party ticket for the political party you belong to and you are overly shy to indicate your interest in the same then chances are that you will never stand on that party ticket let alone contest in that particular election. No one will in

, to make a choice as a matter of fact a very serious one because t

are risk takers and it's a risk to succeed, stand out, be happy, get married, invest in a particular business etc there are some bold and upright choices we must make believe me on this, those that many great people today had to make at some point and there lives had changed forever. You

y will fight those things that weighs you down but yourself and you can't say you will act tomorrow remember life is when you've got it so today is yours n

d and you then decide what to do with your life wal

at your work place, in class, at your local club etc. Or if you never had the courage to ask out a girl out for dinner, then you could gather enough courage and just burst out of your boxers and walk to her and say

ss is a spirit a terrible one at that. To fight terrible spirits we g

taking a shot of brandy in order for me to be bold and courageous and speak to a girl or do something I couldn't

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iful, special, loving, lovable, good person, intelligent, smart, gifted

ositive state of mind which is a much more secure state of mind by always remindi

to your life then others will have a reason to attach value to your life and know for the fact that you are not

le, remember also to improve in your communication skills, be some one easy to talk to and have your integrity intact. If you love to participate in some sport discipline or some activity that is a part of your life you need to improve in those areas by always aspiring each da

uch but you were simply scared to do them before as a result of your being a very shy p

our are changing from a shy person to a more confident and better branded you with prospects that can speak volume abo

in every sense and help us get rid of every negative energy, negative

esteem enhancement because when you have played a part in brightening up some one's life and just being part of a just cause like that will upli

ays and areas. Have an action plan or a memo that will help you know what you should be doing and what not time after time as this will help you game up for good discipline

rt without sand, a ring without a finger it sucks don't feel shy to tell that one special person who melts your heart just how deep you feel about him/her, go ahead and do not hold back for fear of getting rejected and so self di

y had to do it either as a colonized people or a slave class they had to put away fear and shyness to face the ugly situation they were involuntarily faced with while you and i

out 50% of the people who knows you don't wish you well they mostly want you to suffer or rejoice when you are sinking and 40 percent they just don't care about you and 10 percent of them gives a damn about you but tell you what it's all or nothing, that's why you've got to look out for yourself fi